In order to set a default strategy for a file(s) in git merge you need to:
Enable the ours
merge driver
- for current repository
git config merge.ours.driver true
- globally
git config --global merge.ours.driver true
Tell git to use the merge strategy for a file
echo "solutionfolder/file.xml merge=ours" >> .git/info/attributes
As a result the next pull with conflicts will automagically use ours version.
Just remember that the file will not longer be marked as merge conflict.